‎Sat With Ree: Loving Someone Is A Choice

You can choose the person you will love, but you cannot choose the person who will love you. You can’t choose the person who will love you, but you can choose to love the one who loves you.

I believe that it is possible to love someone you thought you couldn't if you only choose to. Falling in love is easy, but staying in love requires effort. We cannot choose who we fall in love with, but we have the liberty to choose who we're going to stay in love with. Staying in love with someone is a decision.

There will be days when you’re gonna see your partner as someone who is totally different from the person you fell in love. When you started your relationship all you’re going to see are the things that you have in common. But as you journey together, you’ll realize that you have a lot of differences, too. The things that you’re going to discover with them could either make or break your relationship.

With all the differences that you’ll eventually discover, you could either choose to make a compromise or simply set it aside. Staying in a relationship isn’t a piece of cake, but you have the freewill to choose who you’re willing to compromise with.

You can choose to detach yourself from your partner once you realize that they aren’t worthy of your love anymore. Or you can choose to stay with them until they come up to their senses and they’ll realize that they are treating you badly. Do not say that you can’t get out of a relationship because you’re trapped. In the end, it’s your choice who you want to stay trapped with.

Being in love isn’t all about rainbows and unicorns. But if you are willing to choose to stay in love with them, you’re going to overlook their flaws and imperfections. Not to the extent that you are already being naive, though. Of course, there should be a fine line between choosing to overlook their wrongdoings and knowing when you are disrespected.

We all know that relationship is a two-way street. It’s impossible to work unless both of you are making the effort. But as long as you both choose to make your relationship work, the trials and challenges that you face will only add to a stronger foundation of your partnership. You’re gonna see it as a mean to strengthen your connection and not as some form a destruction. Your misunderstandings will lead you to a deeper relationship. You will always choose to understand and be patient with them rather than insist to be understood.

You are going to fall in love with different people, but there is only one person who you’re going to choose to stay in love with. The one who you’re willing to go the extra mile. Someone who you’re willing to stick to when things become inconvenient. Someone who you’re going to accept despite their shortcomings.

True love is unconditional. At some point, it would require some sacrifices. But in the end, it’s your choice who you’re willing to sacrifice with.




au revoir.😊

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